To win a man, women have their own tricks. But there are whole manuals for this. Naturally, conquering a man is only half the battle; you need to somehow keep him near you. It's no secret that long-term relationships between a man and a woman sometimes end in separation and divorce. There are also betrayals that do not depend on you, women.
However, in most cases, everything is in your hands: you yourself can fight for your happiness. If you really love your man and parting with him will be a great loss for you, then you definitely need the help of a specialist who will tell you how to keep your loved one close.
Of course, for all women there is no definite answer to this question, since each woman, and the situations that lead to separation, are different. According to family psychologists, any woman can both push away and hold her chosen one. Psychologists have developed general advice for women, how to keep a man. Here are some of them.
- You need to take care of yourself. Once married, most women begin to relax. Initially, women justify this behavior by saying that they are on maternity leave and simply do not have time to take care of themselves. However, as practice shows, many women continue to treat their appearance the same way after maternity leave. During maternity leave, they have already become accustomed to the excess weight they have gained, cellulite becomes familiar to them, and some even refuse beauty salons and makeup - why waste time and money on this when my husband loves me like that? Unfortunately, this is not the best way to keep your loved one close to you. Over time, he begins to look at such a woman not as his wife, but as a piece of home furniture. That is why you should always remember that first of all you are a woman!
- Pay attention to your clothes. Underwear especially plays a role here. A man should constantly feel the feeling that you are trying to be constantly attractive to him. And he must constantly feel this.
- Become diverse. Every person needs something new from time to time. After all, although constant is good, it becomes boring very quickly. Therefore, change something in your appearance. Moreover, you shouldn’t radically change, but you shouldn’t neglect it either. Change your hairstyle, makeup, hair color, manicure and other little things.
- The conqueror instinct for a man is the main thing. Following this statement, constantly make him try to conquer you again.
- Become more significant in his eyes. Artificially inflate your price. To do this, change something in yourself. And you shouldn’t be afraid to experiment. In order to keep the man of your dreams near you, for him you must become the ideal and irreplaceable woman that many men dream of.
- Make him jealous. Sometimes a man needs to give a reason for jealousy, but do not overdo it. Let it be a minor one, but still a reason. The main thing to remember here is that a lot of all kinds of stupid things and even crimes are committed because of jealousy. - this does not mean that he needs to cheat. It is enough to simply let your chosen one know that he is not the only one and other men are also interested in you. In this case, he will definitely try to keep you near him.
- You shouldn't love your husband too much. One rule should be the main thing for you: you can only love yourself too much. Only in this case you will experience much less disappointment. If a woman dissolves in a man because of it, then they don’t like it. Men like women who have self-esteem and character.
- Home comfort. A man should go home with anticipation and pleasure. Prepare a delicious dinner, do not burden him with your problems until he tells you about his own, if any arose during the day.
- Intrigue your loved one. In order to keep your loved one close to you, you shouldn’t reveal yourself completely to him. Let him constantly look for riddles from you. You must prove to him that you still have something unknown to him. Try to raise a lot of questions in his head that he will constantly look for answers to. Give him hope that you will open up to him soon. But this is not at all necessary. This is quite simple to do: create some understatement. Start intriguing him over the phone with the fact that you have learned something about him, and then abruptly end the conversation, saying that they are calling you on the second line and you will only be able to talk to him in the evening. The main thing is to make a man languish with anticipation. Keep him in the dark for as long as possible, and then you can tell him something stupid from his childhood, like that he was afraid of frogs.
Of course, the advice given is about how to keep a man, should be used only as needed. If you abuse them, they will simply stop believing you.
Next to me is a man of about 15 years old, and I know for sure that he is not bored with me and is even often very happy))) Of course, this is not the whole of life, and yet I hope that this period gives me the right to share my experience and write on this topic)
First condition- never bother yourself with the question “How to keep a man.”
If you are afraid of this, then he will definitely leave! You must make sure that he tries to keep you near him! Then he himself will need you to be nearby. And if you are puzzled by this question, it means that your affairs are already bad and you urgently need to switch your attention to your beloved - this, by the way, is second condition.
What does this mean: your center of the universe, occupying all your thoughts, should not be a man as such, but you yourself! Who is more important and more important to you in life, HE or you? Only by being selfish enough (or rather, only if you love yourself first) can you be interesting to a man. This makes it possible to remain yourself, to be a versatile person, and not an “appendage” of him, and to have your own life (at least a small part of life), in which there will be no place for him. You yourself should be interested in your life, and then your man will feel good with you!
And I’ll tell you one more trick, if you understand the meaning of which you can remain interesting to a man for many years. Remember what they say: “Men are like children, they love to play” and it’s true!
A man should always be in the game, it is vital for him - so play with your man! Remember Scheherazade in the fairy tale “1000 and 1 night”?
A clear example of female wisdom! Be a Scheherazade for him! Tell your man bedtime stories and more... Yes, and not all at once, but gradually languishing his anticipation and interest!
You can play on his natural instincts (hunter, conqueror), or you can play on his curiosity and expectation! Force him (unwittingly) to reveal you, to learn something new about you.
Yes, by the way, you will not be able to constantly maintain his interest without meeting the second condition... You saturate your life with something cool - and he becomes interested in you again)
Remember how in Zhenya Belousov’s song: “Where were you and why didn’t you come, I don’t understand? I missed you so much, I didn’t sleep all night, I was waiting for you...”
And here is one illustrative example, where a girl used the instinct of a conqueror, playing on male curiosity and expectation...
Dialogue with a “prize” element on a dating site. The man is an alpha male, all “packed” and very handsome, spoiled by the attention of fans and accustomed to being prostrated before him... He writes to a lady for the first time:
He: Hello!
There is no reaction... Which is already puzzling why they don’t react to such a handsome man.
After some time he writes himself again: If only she could meow in response...
The lady replies 4 days later: No time, I’ll meow on Thursday)
He: And of course, Thursday is fish day)
Thursday has passed and he is waiting. And she doesn't meow)
On Friday the “prize” can’t stand it and writes himself: Telephone? Please give me your...
And if suddenly your man has already lost interest in you, you can still correct this with your behavior.
Examples from life (use wisely and in doses):
You went to some event without him and returned in a great mood. There is no need to “squat” on his ears excitedly talking about how you went, let him force you to tell... Don’t rush to do it... Torment his curiosity with anticipation... and you don’t have to tell everything! Let him figure it out himself... And maybe next time he won’t want you to go without him)
How do you communicate with other people on the phone in front of him? Do you even do this? You don’t have to always do this in front of him... It’s better to go into another room and close the door. Let him guess who you are talking to and what...
And in general, you don’t have to report your every step to him... How often does he call you and find out where you are during the day? If your man is bored with you, give him the opportunity to get bored and be puzzled by the question “where are you, with whom and what are you doing”...
Live and enjoy your life, and your man will enjoy you! And you will keep it for many years, and this is without any magic)
It’s trite but true that achieving goals is not easy. Sometimes you have to invest so much in achieving your one and only, most important, as it seems to us at that moment, goal that everything else simply ceases to exist. And when we have achieved this goal.
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Let us remember, for example, how we stood on the scales and saw the desired result there after a long diet. Isn't it an exciting feeling? But, often, we forget about a simple rule: the achieved result must be reinforced, at least supported from time to time, otherwise all our efforts will be in vain.
It's the same with men. Having met our Prince, interested him, and established a wonderful, promising relationship with him, we are so happy that we are ready to sacrifice almost everything for the sake of this relationship. Well, how can you not sacrifice? Anything for a loved one! And we devote as much time to our loved one as he needs, often to the detriment of our own hobbies and interests, which become less and less, and the circle of contacts narrows until it becomes limited to one single person. Why do you need someone else? After all, it seems that things are heading towards the wedding...
So let's try to figure out what mechanisms make a man lose interest in the woman he once loved. Having understood them, as well as putting into practice the tips outlined below, you will be able to build relationships that are beneficial to you and only you, and also always remain the “number one object” for your man.
So why do men cool off?
Firstly, every person has an inherent desire for novelty. But if women satisfy him by buying new boots or dyeing their hair, men, conquerors and conquerors by nature, seek novelty in relationships.
Secondly, the conquering instinct plays an important role. It cannot be canceled, you can play along with it. (Read below for how to do this.)
Thirdly, a woman’s importance decreases due to her accessible behavior. There are people with whom you can communicate whenever you want - they are available, but there are more “scarce” ones, whose availability is a matter of chance. Who would you prefer to communicate with first?
As you know, for every action there is a reaction. Have you cooled down? Let's tie it to you so that it will be like a tame! Let's increase our importance in his eyes.
To do this, you will have to make some changes in yourself - to become exactly the kind of girl he will never tire of loving - strong, independent, successful and even a little bitchy. Well, what can you do, it is known that only one loves, and the other allows himself to be loved... And, if you are ready for the endless flow of his love, do a little - let him love you.
1. Cause fear of loss
Keep him on his toes. This is how you create your value. You are darling! You are in short supply!
Try playing this game with him: “Closer - further.” Be very nice and good with him for a while, and then - wow! - and disappear. He makes an appointment - “No, I can’t do it today”, calls - you are not at home, and if you are at home, then “oh, no time, sorry.”
Deadlines may vary. If you meet every day, then a week of such separation will confuse him. Just what you need!.. If once a week, let him be bored for a month. Set the separation period so that, on the one hand, it goes beyond the framework you have accepted, and on the other, there is no reason for him to think that you have broken up. Let him have time to get bored. He will puzzle over your behavior. Imagine his emotions when we meet!
2. Constantly create competition for yourself
Let him know that he is not the only one. Never force yourself on him. To do this, you need to have a choice, a choice of those people to whom you can turn (with whom to talk, go for a walk, etc.) if He refuses, so as not to force him or impose on him under any circumstances. Better to punish. After. “Honey, could you come, I need to move the closet. Not today? Okay, don’t bother, I’ll ask Misha.” He'll rush as if on wings!
There should be men around you no worse than him who are interested in you. He must understand that many people want you, but only he gets it. This, combined with your “temporary coldness” and fear of losing you, is an excellent motivation for conquering such a woman again and again.
Be playful. Set yourself in a flirtatious mood - without this, not a single game will bring results. Play, you're a woman! And this is given to women by nature... The internal state of coquetry is the desire to please men, plus confidence in your appearance (and it is not necessary to get your hair done in a salon for this) and plus openness, that is, the desire to perceive signs of attention. We create this state (and a sweet half-smile and a slightly sly sparkle in the eyes already appears) - and forward! Enjoy the game!
Be generous - give smiles, warm glances, small compliments, short touches, and you will see that the attention of most men is focused on you.
3. Expand your social circle and have a hobby
The most common mistake women make is giving up their hobbies for the sake of their loved one.
Men rarely do this. So it turns out that he is passionate about something, he is developing, and you are standing still. It’s really possible to get bored, who likes to communicate with a limited and fixated (even if very loving) person?..
Find yourself an exciting hobby. Finding something you love will give you a lot: it will take your knowledge to a new level (how nice it is to be a professional at something!), expand your social circle (there may be a lot of interesting men there - what scope for creating competition!), you will always have something to do – your independence will increase. Serious pursuits of your favorite work also lead to natural personal growth. A professional in his field is always an interesting person. He needs to see that you are a successful woman who is passionate about something else besides him! And that you are not ready to sacrifice this for him!
So, by doing something interesting and putting your energy into it, you get:
Independence and determination: you have your own interesting business and your own goal. By striving towards your goal, you increase your identity. New knowledge: it’s interesting and pleasant to communicate with you. You are developing, not standing still. New acquaintances: competition increases. You are interesting not only to him, but also to others. He will have to be on his guard so that someone doesn’t take you away. He will know - one step to the right, one step to the left - and he will lose you. All his thoughts will be only about you. And there will be no time for another!
4. Program the future
Don't think, this is not from the realm of extrasensory perception. Although somewhere very close, because these techniques are not noticed by conscious attention, and therefore are very effective.
You need to give him the support to plan a future together. Therefore, as many joint rituals as possible. For example, you spend every Sunday evening together. And nothing else. Let him develop a strong habit, and if he ever fails to spend this evening with you, rest assured, he will feel guilty. You can come up with a lot of rituals: watch a couple in love - they have a lot built on rituals. It is very useful to make plans together: for a week, for a month, for a vacation (“Shall we go to the cinema this week?”, “Let’s go to the sea in the summer!”, etc.).
But when making joint plans, maintain a sense of proportion. Avoid open language about marriage and children, these are dangerous topics. As S. Gorin said: “The best way to get rid of a twenty-year-old guy is to say that you dream of having a child with him. The best way to tie a thirty-year-old to you is to say the same thing.” So choose according to the situation. But this method of programming his behavior is especially effective with a short “experience” of the relationship. Formulate your wish and insert it into the conversation in the form of a small self-description. For example, “I love when people give me flowers,” or “I really like unexpected gifts,” or “I am pleased when a man praises me,” “I will never forget the person who brings me coffee in bed.” He will certainly take all this into account.
5. Intriguing and not revealing yourself completely
Does he think he knows you by heart? Well, now you can prove the opposite!
To be intriguing means to raise a lot of questions in his head regarding you and your relationship, and hopes for answers.
Interest is a powerful tool that makes his thoughts come back to you and the topic you touch on again and again. Use this tool skillfully, come up with your own unexpected solutions, and to get started, use the recipes below:
Now you have all the tools not only to keep the man you want, but also to improve yourself. All you have to do is start ACTING - and your goal will be achieved.
But sometimes, without apparent reason or explanation, men leave us.
Thousands of manuals have been written about ways to win the man of your dreams, but few people are interested in the fact that a satellite taken by storm still has to be kept.
Do not hurry
Especially immediately after meeting. Do not rush to quickly develop your relationship, move on to intimacy, talk to him about the wedding, children, do not rush to make common plans for the future, etc. This almost always frightens the chosen one very much if you do this right away, at the beginning of your relationship.
Surprise
You can unexpectedly give him a romantic dinner, gather his old friends, take him to some beautiful place, give him a gift for no reason, etc. The element of surprise plays a big role in such cases. 
Don't argue
Men always think that they are right, so arguing with them is a useless hassle. Of course, there is a chance that you will convince him, but at what cost will you get all this! If you still categorically do not want to agree with him, try to talk calmly without turning the conversation into shouting.
LISTEN to him, understand why he thinks this way. Maybe he really is right. If not, then give your reasons, justifying them logically.
“I think so and so, and I don’t care!”, “I know I’m right!” - such phrases for a man are similar to a red rag for a bull.
Perhaps a mutual friend, the Internet, etc. will help you resolve the issue.
Praise
Men also love with their ears, which is why they smile so sweetly when they are told nice things. BUT! This must be done appropriately. You can compare this to dog training: done - get a treat! The same applies to men: praise must be deserved, otherwise he will lose that same incentive.
If you do everything competently and cunningly, your chosen one will do all the work with great enthusiasm! 
Give me freedom
You don't need to keep it near you all the time. Don’t follow your chosen one, don’t read his correspondence, don’t eavesdrop on his conversations... However, sometimes you can deviate from these rules: if you want to know everything about him, do it quietly and infrequently.
Also, you should not prevent him from meeting with friends, because often they truly relax with their souls (interesting conversations, humor that is relevant to their circle, etc.).
BUT! Don't give him any reason to think that you don't care about him, otherwise he will start doing stupid things to spite you.
Develop yourself
If you are a versatile person, he will always be interested in you. Men are very flattered when they try to develop at their expense: you can ask him to teach you how to drive a car, paint walls, or maybe even save money...
BUT! Don't show off that you can do something better. This could humiliate him.
Don't compare with others
Many people think that comparison should create motivation for self-improvement, but this is not the case. A man may simply be offended. Although... You can compare, but from a positive perspective: “You are stronger...”, “You are more beautiful...”, “You do better...”, etc.
Support
You are his chosen one, and the first thing he will want to do is find solace with you. If you can reassure him from time to time, encourage him and look for ways out of difficult situations together, have no doubt - you will mean a lot to him.
Is it possible to stop a married man?
Almost every girl who begins a relationship with a married man understands that she is doing wrong, but secretly consoles herself with the thought that she will be the one who will be able to become “his only one.” Most likely, her chosen one has already told her how bad everything is in their family, that there is no love or passion left, and only the child, business, the thought that the sick mother will be very upset, etc. are holding him back.
Before you think about whether it is possible to keep a married man, you should ask yourself: do you need it?
Spending time in depressing anticipation, being together but not being a couple, living life in oppressive uncertainty, risking forever remaining in the hopeless status of a mistress, being constantly “in the background,” not caring about your future.
The fact remains that only a small number of men leave their families and children for their new love.
There is only one conclusion here: from the very beginning you should not start any love relationships with married men if you do not want to remain with a broken heart or torment yourself all your life with thoughts that you contributed to the destruction of the family (of any kind). 
Stop all his attempts to hit on you (flirting, backhanded compliments, etc.). If a relationship does begin, you should abandon it as soon as possible. Remember the “boomerang effect”. And remember: no matter how quickly passion flares up, it can fade away just as quickly, so don’t rush headlong into the pool.
Joke on topic:
It is difficult, very difficult to prove to your ex-lover who has become your wife that married men never cheat on their wives.
How to keep a guy
Forever
If you want to stay with this person for the rest of your life, work on the relationship right away.
After sex
What happened, happened. We live in a world where sexual relations are losing their previously inherent morality. We can say it differently: partners make love less and less often, and more and more often simply have sexual intercourse. However, this does not mean that you need to immediately “jump into bed” with your new chosen one.
In most cases, men immediately lose interest in the “easy victim”. But at the same time, you shouldn’t make him wait too long if you don’t want him to simultaneously look for sexual satisfaction elsewhere.
After spending a night together, girls often make mistakes that can scare away a guy.In most cases (depending on the character of the man) you cannot:
- talk about marriage and serious relationships;
- ask how many partners he had before you;
- talk about your sexual experience (in the sense: “But Petka and I...!”);
- compare him with others (“You are better and more resilient than so-and-so” - you must admit, a dubious compliment);
- insist that he say whether he liked it (if - yes, don’t doubt it - he will show it with all his appearance).
After everything has happened, do not impose yourself on the guy, but also do not act as if you are indifferent to the outcome of his decision about your subsequent meetings.
If he wants to break up
First, you need to remind him how good it was for you the entire time you were together. You should not accompany your words with hysterics, violent emotions, sobs, etc. All this can cause irritation and your conversation will quickly end.
A sincere smile generated by memories, light strokes on the arm and selection of important moments in the story - this is all that is needed for a guy to think about whether he should lose you.
Be sure to find out in a conversation what exactly doesn’t suit him about you and your relationship, convince him that you are ready to change. After that, most likely, he will give your future a second chance.
Younger than yourself
Remember a few rules:
Older than yourself
No matter what the difference in your age is, if you do not diversify yourself, then he will most likely become bored with you sooner or later. Find out the latest news, be interested in his work, the health of his parents, ask him to teach you something he knows well, etc.
BUT! Never try to show such a man that you are smarter; you don’t need to teach him about life, nag him, or argue.
If you disagree with him on some issue, sit down and talk calmly, but you need to do this carefully (“Honey, don’t be mad at me, but I don’t understand why you think that way...”).
During the conversation, you can present your arguments, and in the end, perhaps, you will be able to convince him if you yourself have not yet agreed with him.
Don't be selfish
Accept his lifestyle too. Don’t think only about your desires, dreams and habits, because there are two of you. Look for compromises, make concessions, but don’t completely forget about yourself.
Create home comfort 
By the time he comes home from work, clean up the apartment, prepare a delicious dinner, and tidy up yourself and the children. If he arrives in a bad mood, support and encourage him.
Show your love. Do not skimp on pleasant words, kindness, tenderness, and then your man will look forward to the moment when he returns home to the woman he loves.
Try to live up to his ideal woman
But at the same time remain a mystery. This applies to behavior, your attitude towards him, family position, and, of course, appearance. Don’t consider the changes you need to make for the sake of your beloved guy to be humiliating, because it’s all just for your happiness.
BUT! do not forget about that very zest that should remain in every woman - do not bend completely, otherwise you will become too predictable for him, and he will lose interest in you.
Experiment with sex
Intimate life is far from unimportant for a man. So surprise, delight, intrigue, excite, excite him.
If he is interested in you in bed, the likelihood that he will look “to the left” is minimized.
The most cunning women can even manipulate their partner through sex. Not in the sense of: “You’ll give it to me,” but in this sense: you did it nicely - you can hint at something. During periods of bliss, men are very pliable.
Know how to quarrel 
Try to control yourself: don’t say offensive things, don’t try to insult or humiliate your partner, don’t call him names or provoke him to do so. If you feel like you are on the verge of a breakdown, it is better to go into the room and ask them to calm you down a little.
Communicate, but don't bother
If suddenly he needs to go somewhere for a relatively long time, there is no need to call him very often. However, you need to periodically remind yourself, because keeping a guy at a distance is quite difficult. It is very important to do this competently: to be unobtrusive, playful, intriguing.
So, for half a day you can periodically send him tender SMS, then suddenly disappear: your boyfriend will get worried and will definitely call back to find out if everything is okay with you.
As an option, you can send him your photographs (possibly of an erotic nature). When talking on the phone, be an interesting conversationalist. You don’t need to talk all the time for 10 minutes about how much you miss him and how much you love him.
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Every married woman is sometimes visited by fears that she is not good enough in bed for her husband or boyfriend, there are such thoughts - what if another one comes along who can interest and seduce him, drag him into bed and end up in bed like a bomb, he will attack her He'll fall for this and leave me.
So, this is exactly the option you shouldn’t be afraid of. Only with sex, not a single woman has ever held back a single man. Leo Tolstoy wrote, “It is not the woman who holds the x-th that is dangerous, but the one who holds the soul.” Moreover, the more successful a man is, the less chance he has of retaining him through sex. Sex comes easily to the alpha male and he doesn’t appreciate it. In addition, every man has his own limit of bed madness, after reaching which the bomb tires and gets boring.
An established and wealthy man is usually a man over 40. He sometimes wants a change of situation, but he usually does not make long-term changes and is afraid of them. Every day he wants peace and family comfort next to a woman. It’s also not worth betting on a young guy with sex. Firstly, such a person believes that he still has everything ahead of him. And no matter what “nuclear” woman is with him, he considers her a temporary option until true love appears. And he is guided not by calculation, but by emotions - there is no patience and experience yet. And in general, a young partner as a life partner is a lottery. It is unknown what else will come out of it.
There are two types of attraction between a man and a woman - testosterone - this is only sex, this attraction decreases with age from adolescence to 60-70 years, when a man usually needs sex.
And there is also oxytocin attraction. This is an attraction without sexual arousal, but based on tenderness, comfort, and trust. it can last for years. Now fading, now intensifying. Usually these two hormones interact. But the older a man is, the greater the influence on his behavior by oxytocin and the less by testosterone.
If suddenly a man leaves for a woman who is neither younger nor more beautiful than you, it means that he lacks tenderness, comfort, warmth, and trust. And no matter how much you tug at his penis, it won’t help. If he leaves for a younger woman, then bother, don’t bother, you won’t be able to cope with a young competitor through sex. But if you behave correctly, then victory will be yours. As I already said, violent passions will quickly tire a man. He will want peace, coziness, comfort and satiety.
But his young rival is unlikely to give him this. If only she is very smart and semi-frigid. And her mother raised her correctly. Which is rare these days. And after being mad for some time, your man will certainly come to you if he is sure that he will find all this from you. And if he’s not sure, he’ll try anyway - after all, he remembers how good it was with you before. If you want him to be with you, then you should never yell at an unfaithful man. A smart tactic is to make him want to stay with you as long as possible. Scandals don't help this! Feed him, warm him up. Please flatter yourself.
The young woman most likely won’t be able to withstand such tactics for a long period of time and will start yelling at him herself. And he will want to be with her less and less, and in the end he will stay with you. Your weapons are patience and a sense of proportion. If a man ran away from you unexpectedly and you are choked by emotions, then if you want to cry, then you don’t need to do it. At least in his sight. Try changing your hairstyle, makeup, clothes and your overall image. Experiment. First of all, it's distracting. And secondly, maybe someone will fall for you. If not your husband, then someone else. What will lift your mood and self-esteem. And if rage is strangling you, then there is no need to pour it out on your male.
Try to track down your rival. You will create a scandal for her. Spill your hair. You will break your nails on it. In 4 cases out of 5 this will be enough for her to leave. She got together with your husband to have pleasure, not problems. And a little more theory:
A man has the strongest sex drive around the age of 15. Then it is slow at first, and then fades away faster and faster. And somewhere around the age of 60 it fades away. But for women it’s the other way around. Teenagers for the most part are almost not interested in sex, only for the sake of general fashion. Then, with age, their sex drive increases and reaches a maximum just before menopause. During menopause, sexual arousal jumps sharply - from disgust to strong desire.
Until, with the end of menopause, it completely fades away. That is, the curve of sexual temperament for men goes down with age, and for women it goes up. And they will certainly intersect. Sometimes at 30 years old or even earlier. And more often in the area of 40ka. After this period, the woman will want sex more often than her man. This must be taken into account and not demand the impossible from a man. And especially not to insult him. If you want to save the relationship. And don't forget about the children! Even if a man assures that he does not want children, if your time has come, give birth anyway! Firstly, most likely he will love his child. Not right away. And by about 8 months, when the child becomes interesting.
And secondly, men run away from childless wives much more often. And even if he runs away anyway, at least you will still have a child. At least you won't die alone. And even now a woman with a child will find a new husband faster than a childless one. especially if both she and the potential husband are no longer so young.
Why? And because after 30, childless people are attacked by all sorts of stupid things. Either he’ll join a sect, or he’ll stop eating meat, or he’ll become addicted to one carrot. Until she herself becomes a carrot color. Something else like that. And he still takes care of his sores and cherishes them. He runs around with healers and psychics. And after 40, childless women generally become bitchy to the point of impossibility. And her principles appear. With her principles, she will fuck any man to the point of complete impotence. Have you heard the proverb: “If a woman insists that the most attractive part of a man to her is his brain, then she is going to fuck your brains.” This is just about forty-year-old childless people. And in general, the presence of a child in the family contributes to the production of oxytocin by the body of both spouses. Promotes stability of relationships.